Well, well, well...

That was unexpected *grins*



I would never have thought that she and I would have bonded with a two hour conversation about him...yeah there were times it was awkward and times i was sort of left speechless...but that was...awesome!

It still blows my mind how much she and I have in common...so strange...

I can't speak for her but our talk really helped me...insecurites from that time have been resurfacing plus I never really got the whole story anyway (it's not something he likes to talk about...he's not proud of it and wishes it hadn't happened) so hearing her side of what happened and how she feels...it helped me a lot. Part of that is just the way God made me...I love stories...especially true ones that I can relate to. But overall, that was probably my favorite part of the weekend.


I do feel bad for him though...his ex and his fiance becoming good friends and talking about him? Poor boy...ahh well, suck it up. I'm not going back now.


Speaking of going back, I need to talk to her about going to Brahm's or Jason's Deli some time...add it to my to do list.


After hearing her side of the story and knowing his, I really feel the two of them need to sit down and talk. She can say everything she has wanted to scream at him or anything she wants to say and he will listen. Then he can say whatever he has to say and she will listen. I'll even ref if needed. Actually I'd probably need to be there...to hold his hand to give him strength (I honestly think he's a little scared of her) and to make sure they each get a chance to say what they need to say without the other interrupting (that'd be more to keep him quiet while she talks than the other way around, I think). I think that would be good for the both of them...allowing both to forgive each other for any hurt the other might have caused (again, more for him to apologize...I'm not sounding biased at all, am I?). I think that would help a lot in the healing process for both. I know she says she's over it and he obviously just wants to forget it happened...but I think both of them are still being effected by that situation way more than they need to be...take that back...I know they are.


And now that I've gotten to truly know her and can call her my friend...I don't want to see her hurting over this anymore...even if it's telling the whole campus to stop talking to her about him if need be. She doesn't deserve to hurt for that anymore. She's refered to herself as a butterfly who people (him included) have tried to pin on a wall...well, it's time she is unpinned and set free.


Hmm...you know...for her having been spoiled for me...I really like her. I admire her. She is not afraid to be herself. I know she calls herself an introvert but once you get her talking, it's quite delightful. I felt like I won a prize when she started opening up to me. Wonderful. She has so many interesting things to say.


I like where this friendship is going...